The truth of the matter is that right now in your daughter's life, she is at a crossroads.
From a physiological perspective, she has yet to fully develop the ability to master rational thought.
Still operating from her lower brain, your daughter reacts with emotion and impulsivity.
However, her desire for independence and autonomy is starting to emerge.
As parents, what you may be witnessing is these two realities coming to a head, as your daughter tries to navigate mature situations without all of the necessary tools.